Oprah Winfrey once said that keeping a gratitude journal can change your life. Science seems to agree. In Brazil, a 2022 systematic review and meta-analysis of 1,365 studies found that gratitude interventions significantly increased feelings of gratitude, improved mental health, reduced anxiety and depression, and enhanced mood and positive emotions.
Like many people, I spend much of my day juggling responsibilities of work, family, finances, and constantly think about what needs to be done next. By the end of the day, I often feel drained and frustrated that I have not accomplished more. Yet, beneath that frustration, I know there is so much to be grateful for.
Inspired by Oprah’s advice, I decided to act. I purchased a gratitude journal (appropriately titled Sweet Gratitude) and began a daily practice. At first, it felt like training: intentionally searching for things to appreciate required awareness, focus, and a conscious shift in perspective. Each night before bed, I wrote down what I was thankful for or mentally replayed the day’s events, listing the many ways the world had offered me small gifts.
Over time, this practice became second nature. Gratitude wove itself seamlessly into my daily life. After just a week, I noticed how effortless it was to recognize moments of goodness. Furthermore, I noticed how they seemed to multiply. One day, as if the universe was winking back at me, I found myself behind a car whose license plate read “GR8FULL.”
Was it a coincidence? Or was it a reminder that when we cultivate gratitude, we begin to notice more of it around us? Positive thoughts shape our feelings and behaviors. We live in a world saturated with messages telling us we are not enough, we need more, do more, be more. This constant barrage can leave us feeling depleted and fearful. Gratitude, however, shifts our focus from scarcity to abundance. It reminds us that our lives are already full of blessings if we choose to see them.
As I embraced gratitude more deeply, I found myself wanting to pay it forward. Even something as simple as a license plate can serve as a powerful call to action – a small, unexpected nudge that reminds us to pause, reflect, and choose gratitude in that moment. These subtle prompts can spark a shift in our mindset, influencing how we interact with others and creating a ripple effect of kindness, appreciation, and positivity that extends far beyond ourselves.
As I recently began contemplating writing for this blog (years since my first license plate experience), I was driving home thinking about this very practice, and a car pulled in front of me. Its license plate read “GRTFUL2.” Once again, I had to smile. Coincidence? Maybe. But I like to believe it was the universe’s way of affirming a simple truth: when we open our hearts to gratitude, life has a way of showing us just how much there is to be thankful for.
References
Diniz, G., Korkes, L., Tristão, L. S., Pelegrini, R., Bellodi, P. L., & Bernardo, W. M. (2023). The effects of gratitude interventions: a systematic review and meta-analysis. Einstein (Sao Paulo, Brazil), 21, eRW0371. https://journal.einstein.br/article/the-effects-of-gratitude-interventions-a-systematic-review-and-meta-analysis/.
Sweet Gratitude. (2020). Daily Gratitude Journal, Embracing Each Day with Joy and Gratitude.
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View all postsI see therapy as a collaborative process, walking alongside you as you navigate life transitions, heal from past experiences, and reconnect with your inner resilience. My approach is shaped by decades of service, including over 40 years as a court stenographer, internships with community organizations, and more than 30 years as a Religious Science Practitioner, as well as my curiosity-driven interests in Jungian studies, nature, and lifelong learning.
