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Inner Child Work has received a lot of media attention in recent years, and there have been countless YouTube and Tik Tok videos uploaded about the practice. So, what is inner child work?<\/p>\n
The term \u201cinner child\u201d refers to the thought patterns, feelings, hopes, and fears your childhood self held but remain present in adulthood. As an adult, you still carry parts of your childhood with you, whether they\u2019re continued creative imagination or emotional wounds from experiences during that time in your life. Inner child work is finding ways to access that part of you and reconnect with it to incorporate it into your healing and self-discovery journey. As we grow into adulthood, each stage we move through (childhood, adolescence, young adulthood) sticks with us in some way. To know and accept yourself as you are today means knowing and accepting each age or version that has passed.<\/p>\n
If you\u2019ve found yourself stuck in feelings, thoughts, or relationship patterns that no longer serve you, inner child work may be beneficial. While inner child work can bring a lot of joy and creative energy back into your life, it may also bring up difficult memories and emotions. This technique is most often used with those who need healing and reconciliation for adverse childhood experiences and traumas. It validates the experiences you faced and the ways you protected yourself later on. Accessing your inner child can help you to make sense of the ways you deal with emotions or engage in relationships today as an adult. It also allows you to find accessible ways to hold space and process all the emotions you experience — not just the \u201chappy\u201d ones — and break unhealthy patterns.<\/p>\n
As a therapist, I appreciate inner child work for a few reasons. This work not only allows us to address and examine our pasts, but also see how our past may still be impacting our behaviors and thoughts today. It also allows us to see ourselves as a whole person, shaped by the experiences we\u2019ve had over our lifespan. I also really enjoy the creative and imaginative aspect of this work. Sometimes the best way to re-charge is by allowing our creativity to flow.<\/p>\n
This work is not always easy, and it\u2019s most successful when done with a trusted therapist. To start, here are a few ways you can incorporate this work into your own healing practices.<\/p>\n
We\u2019re often our own harshest critics, but what do you think the 5, 7, or 10 year old you would think of all that you\u2019ve accomplished? Taking a step back to see how much you\u2019ve experienced since childhood (and how far you\u2019ve come) can be helpful in accessing gratitude and appreciation for oneself.<\/p>\n
If you find yourself struggling to break the habit of negative self-talk, consider writing your younger self a letter. What does the younger you need to hear from the present you? What validation can you offer yourself to combat that negative self-talk?<\/p>\n
If you enjoy meditation and visualization practices, I invite you to welcome your inner child into that space. While that may sound abstract, it helps to visualize yourself as a child or have a picture of your younger self. Try repeating a self-love mantra to the younger version of yourself, like: \u201cYou are loved. You are enough. You are healing and growing each day.\u201d Try imagining the present you giving a hug to your childhood self.<\/p>\n
Allowing your creative side to flow without any expectations is a great way to get in touch with your inner child! Whether it\u2019s painting, coloring, or breaking out the old sidewalk chalk, finding some time to get away from all the adult responsibilities you hold to just allow yourself to create can be incredibly beneficial for your emotional well-being.<\/p>\n
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Almeida-Farrell, G. (2022, October 25). What is Inner child work?. Holistic Wellness Practice. https:\/\/www.holisticwellnesspractice.com\/hwp-blog\/2022\/10\/25\/what-is-inner-child-work<\/p>\n
Davis, S. (2020, July 20). Healing trauma through inner child work. CPTSDfoundationorg. https:\/\/cptsdfoundation.org\/2020\/07\/20\/healing-trauma-through-inner-child-work\/<\/p>\n
Dodson, J. (Ed.). (2023, June 5). Inner child: Healing your inner child. BetterHelp. https:\/\/www.betterhelp.com\/advice\/therapy\/inner-child-what-is-it-what-happened-to-it-and-how-can-i-fix-it\/<\/p>\n
Sj\u00f6blom, M., \u00d6hrling, K., Prellwitz, M., & Kostenius, C. (2016, June 16). Health throughout the lifespan: The phenomenon of the inner child reflected in events during childhood experienced by older persons. International journal of qualitative studies on health and well-being. https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4912602\/<\/p>\n
Sutton, J. (2023, April 26). Inner child healing: 35 practical tools for growing beyond your past. PositivePsychology.com. https:\/\/positivepsychology.com\/inner-child-healing\/<\/p>\n
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