In the last couple of years, research into the psychological benefits of nature has exploded and found that spending time among the trees can reduce stress, increase creativity and make us feel happier.  Unfortunately, the vast majority of us live in urban areas and spend most of our time in our offices, homes, and surrounded by concrete roads and buildings.  However, we can create our own mini greenspaces and bring those benefits to us with the use of a couple of houseplants. They do wonders for our mental and physical health. Here’s why you should consider bringing a bit of greenery into your home. 

 Reduced Stress 

Recent studies have shown that nature, and plants in particular, help us to feel relaxed and relieve stress.  Evidence has found that spending time around plants actually physically lowers the amount of stress that your body is carrying by lowering your blood pressure and suppressing sympathetic (arousal) nervous system activity.  These physiological responses are correlated to psychological feelings of decreased anxiety, and increased feelings of calmness and relaxation.  Additionally, green is considered to be the most soothing color, and found abundantly on almost any plant.  

Houseplants give you a slice of nature indoors. Especially if you live in a city with limited green spaces, having some plants at home can make a huge difference. Research has found that even small interactions (one or two small plants or as little as 20 minutes) with nature can boost your mood and reduce feelings of depression and anxiety . 

 Increased Dopamine 

Most of us have heard of dopamine, the neurotransmitter in our brain that’s often referred to as the “feel good chemical”.  While dopamine is involved in a number of brain functions, it can very much affect our mental health. In particular, dopamine is responsible for our feeling of reward.  Dopamine gets triggered by a substance or behavior, and the release of this chemical makes us feel good and more likely to repeat that behavior.   

Because plants are living things, when we take care of them we can actual see our efforts paying off as the plant grows.  This can also increase our levels of dopamine which helps us to experience positive emotions, and provides a sense of accomplishment or fulfillment.  

Increased Mindfulness       

Houseplants need regular care and attention, which can give you an easy way to practice mindfulness without even thinking about it too much. Simple tasks like watering, pruning, and repotting your plants help you stay present and focused on the moment. These small acts of care can be meditative, helping you to calm your mind and increase your ability to live mindfully over time, which is correlated to increased feelings of happiness and well-being. 

Caring for plants can also put you in a state of flow, where you become fully absorbed in what you’re doing. This flow state is excellent for your mental health, promoting concentration and decreasing rumination. 

Life Lessons to be Learned from Plants 

Plants, like all living things, have their struggles. They might deal with pests, diseases, or changes in their environment, mirroring the ups and downs of life.  Noticing your plant has a problem can engage you both in learning something new and increasing your problem solving abilities by trying to learn about the plant and what change it may need to be healthier.  

Additionally, a houseplant that has gone through a little bit of struggle can help show us how to accept imperfections, about the plant, ourselves, or life. Through this acceptance we can also see from our plants how to be resilient, and keep growing even when things aren’t exactly the way we want them to be.  Seeing your plants overcome challenges can inspire you to do the same, reminding you that growth often comes through overcoming obstacles. 

Whether you’re a full-time working parent, an overloaded student, or simply working on defining the next chapter of your life, finding intentional time to be outside between daily events can prove challenging. In the US, the average person spends 87% of their time in enclosed buildings and another 6% in vehicles, leaving a measly 7% of outdoors time (Student Conservation Association, 2017). 7% of our outdoors time is unfortunately mostly composed of short-lived transitions between vehicles and buildings. Furthermore, following the COVID-19 pandemic, many once office-based workers have transitioned into remote positions; increasing the percentage of indoor time as travel to-and-from work decreases. Currently, 66% of Americans work from home at least part-time, and it’s projected that by the year 2025, 36.2 million Americans will be working remotely full-time (Flynn,2023). With this in mind, how do we fit in time to be outdoors with such busy schedules? Why even bother?

Give Yourself a Boost

If you feel unfocused, fatigued, or stuck, it may stem from a lack of movement and intentional time outside! Spending time outside daily improves our body and mind’s stress recovery, and refreshes us so we may have longer attention spans (Avitt, 2021). You can start improving your wellbeing without outdoors time at any point, however, it has been found that the earlier you begin getting yourself outside the better. Researchers in Denmark conducted a study on 900,000 children ranging from birth to the age of 10 years old. After 18 years of conducting this study, the researchers found that children who were less exposed to time outside in green spaces were 55% more likely to develop mental health strife in adulthood than those who grew up frequently spending time outdoors (Weir, 2020).

Relational Improvement

Spending times outdoors also has the power to better our relationships. Spending time outdoors has been correlated with increased empathy and bonding with others. In a study where green initiatives were implemented in neighborhoods, the residents reported not only having a 41% decrease in depression, but a change in interactions with their neighbors as well (Avitt, 2021). The residents stated there was an increase in positive interactions between them and their neighbors as compared to their interactions prior to the green initiative. Wilderness couple’s therapist Jeff Adorador has found that spending routine time outside with your significant other can prompt stronger cooperation, intimacy and communication within your relationship ( Kwak-Hefferan, 2023).

Furthermore, the outdoors can also improve connectivity for those who are sometimes overstimulated by the task of connecting with other people. Environmental psychologist Matthew White, in a study of people who experience social anxiety, found that one’s desire to connect could be quelled by spending time outdoors (Wier, 2020). White explained, “There are people who don’t necessarily want to spend their time with others, but they feel connected to the natural environment, and that can enhance their well-being.”

How and Where

As psychologists, social workers, environmentalists, and sociologist continue to study the correlation between human health and the outdoors, there’s no set-in-stone recommendation on how often one needs to be outside to reap wholistic benefits to their health and wellbeing. While experts have found the greener (fauna and flora) and bluer (marine spaces) spaces are the higher quality environments for mental restoration (Wier,2020), it has also been proven that increasing your outdoor time, in even in urban spaces, brings more mental stability (Student Conservation Association, 2017). People who increased their time outside by 2 hours a week, whether consecutively or spread out, felt an increase in wellness and motivation (Avitt,2021). Begin forming the habit of being outside by scheduling just 20 minutes every day. Other ways to motivate yourself to get outside hours include: joining a hiking group, designing a more thorough walking schedule for you and your furry friends, signing up for a community gardening project, going on walking dates with friends, planning date nights as a bike ride to a restaurant nearby, or planning some of your weekend meals as picnics!

References

Avitt, A. (2021, March 24). The wellness benefits of the great outdoors. US Forest Service. https://www.fs.usda.gov/features/wellness-benefits-great-outdoors#:~:text=There%20are%20many%20mental%20wellness.

Kwak-Hefferan, E. (2023, April 6). How Time in Nature Can Improve Your Relationship. Outside Online. https://www.outsideonline.com/health/wellness/nature-time-relationship/.

Student Conservation Association. (2017, December 11). How Going Outside Improves Our Mood and Health Even in Winter. Student Conservation Association. https://www.thesca.org/connect/blog/how-going-outside-improves-our-mood-and-health-even-winter/?gclid=CjwKCAjw-b-kBhB-EiwA4fvKrCwFZ22WaNodVUmcyJMrWsNXwWE4YSW2jOzgMAx1o6cX9CaYURKhdRoCBE4QAvD_BwE.

Weir, K. (2020, April 1). Nurtured by nature. American Psychological Association, 51(3). https://www.apa.org/monitor/2020/04/nurtured-nature.

In the challenging and dynamic world of education, students often face a multitude of pressures, ranging from academic performance to social interactions and personal development. It is crucial to learn tools and strategies that foster resilience, confidence, and a positive mindset. One such powerful tool is the practice of daily affirmations.

I am courageous

I am where I need to be right now

I am grateful for my friends and family

I am capable of graduating and attaining my dream job

I can fight through this

Above are just a few affirmations I use daily that serve as powerful reminders of my capabilities.They have profoundly impacted my self-confidence, motivation, goal achievement, personal growth, and emotional well-being. In the past, I often found myself battling inner demons in my head, which dragged me down and created barriers to accomplishing my goals. When the idea of pursuing my MSW (Master of Social Work) first crossed my mind, the negative thought processes immediately hindered me from even considering it. “I’ll never get into the Master’s program,” or, “I’m not smart enough to pass the classes” were just some of the thoughts that plagued my mind for years. How could I allow these destructive voices in my head to thwart my dreams?

Enough was enough. I realized that I needed to take charge of my life and regain control of my inner narrative. That’s when I learned to dive deeper into the power of positive self-talk and decided to implement it into my daily routine by utilizing the simple yet impactful technique of placing post-it notes with affirming words all around my space. I wanted to challenge and

override the negative thoughts that had held me back for far too long. And to my surprise, the impact was profound.

Not only did these daily affirmations help to reframe my mindset and replace self-doubt with self-belief, but they also provided constant reminders of my capabilities and potential. Affirmations like “I am worthy of pursuing my dreams,” “I am intelligent and capable of academic success,” or “I am capable of balancing multiple responsibilities effectively” became my guiding mantras.

Of course, the support I received from my family, friends, and colleagues also played a significant role in influencing my decision to go back to school. However, I cannot stress enough the power that something as simple as positive self-talk, manifested through post-it notes, had on my journey. These affirmations became daily anchors that kept me grounded and propelled me forward, reminding me of my true potential and helping me overcome the self-imposed barriers that once held me back.

As I look back, I am grateful for the shift in my mindset and the courage it took to challenge those negative voices. By embracing the practice of daily affirmations and surrounding myself with positive words, I have been able to break free from self-limiting beliefs and pursue my aspirations with renewed determination and confidence. I share this experience to encourage others to explore the power of positive self-talk and affirmations. Sometimes, the simplest tools can lead to profound transformations, empowering us to embrace our dreams and unlock our full potential.

In an ideal world, anxiety would be a figment of our imagination. We wouldn’t know what it feels like to be shaking in fear, or sick to our stomachs with worry. Anxiety would be a distant memory, fear would be a thing of fairy tales, and worry would be a wonder.

Yet, unfortunately, we live in a world riddled with anxiety. A world that is more conducive to creating anxiety rather than minimizing it. Whatever causes your anxiety, you know that it often comes up at inconvenient times. And the world doesn’t exactly stop for our anxiety to be dealt with — we must keep moving. We must go on with our day, we have to go to work, give the presentation, go to the meeting, pick up kids from school, make dinner, and carry on with so many other things in our lives. We don’t always have the luxury of really sitting with our anxiety and working through it in the moment, because anxiety doesn’t wait for your next therapy session. And because life doesn’t stop moving, I’m offering you 5 grounding exercises that may be able to bring you back to the center when you are feeling out of control but need to keep going.

You may have heard of a few of these before, but this post can serve as a reminder and a central location to find what works for you in the moment.

5-4-3-2-1 Method

The 5-4-3-2-1 method is helpful for those moments when you feel out of control. Maybe you feel a panic attack about to come on, and you need to orient yourself to time and place. The goal is to use all 5 of our senses to get grounded in the world around us. Start with identifying 5 objects that you can see, and if you are able, say them out loud. “Lamp, coffee cup, candle, plant, picture frame”. Next, identify 4 things that you can touch, and again, if you are able to say them out loud and physically touch these items, take a moment to hold them in your hand or let your hand rest on them. Then identify 3 things you can hear around you – be it a car driving by, the small talk of coworkers, the sound of a fan whirring, or anything else. If possible, say it out loud and take a moment to listen. Next, pick 2 things you can smell, then breathe deeply as you do to identify what they are. Finally, find 1 thing you can taste. Perhaps it’s a drink of water or a sip of coffee.

Now that you are grounded to the environment around you, I hope you feel a little more comfortable moving to the next task at hand.

Box Breathing

Box breathing grounds us by focusing on our breath rather than the anxious thoughts in our head. For box breathing, each breath will last for 4 seconds. If you can, use your finger to draw a box in the air as you breathe as a visual representation of what you’re doing.

First, if possible, sit with your feet flat on the ground. Take a deep breath for 4 seconds, hold the breath for 4 seconds, exhale for 4 seconds, and hold for 4 seconds. Do this for 4 cycles, or as much as you need before returning to the moment you’re in.

Quick Mindfulness

If you regularly turn to mindfulness practices, this next technique can be a great tool during moments of anxiety. If you don’t regularly practice mindfullness, you can try this quick mindfulness exercise as a grounding technique.

If you are able, stand with your feet flat on the floor. Take off your shoes if you’re comfortable with it. Close your eyes and focus your attention on your feet: how do they feel as they make contact with the floor? Now move to your legs. How do they feel? Are they tight? Loose? Stiff? Next focus on your stomach: how does that feel? Move up your body, thinking about every part until you get to the top of your head. Now in review, where do you feel the anxiety the most? Notice what parts of your body hold tension and tightness. Notice your breathing. You don’t need to change anything, just bring your attention to the different areas of your body. Notice how your body feels, what your breathing is like, and where your anxiety is held. And when you feel ready, slowly open your eyes, and re-engage with your everyday life.

Something to Hold

Sometimes, when we are feeling anxious, it can really benefit us to have something tactile in our hands. For some, this may be a fidget toy, a smooth stone, or something you carry with you to provide grounding in times of anxiety. For others, it may be holding a piece of ice or washing your hands for the cool sensation it provides. Finding what works for you can prove to be very beneficial. Having a tactile object can prove to be a quick method of grounding in moments of anxiety, especially when you are in a situation where you’re unable to do a mindfulness or breathing exercise. I wear a ring that my mother gave me, and I often find myself spinning it to remember where I am, and remember her strength. I encourage you to find whatever it is that works for you.

Take a Walk

Sometimes we need to simply get away and take a walk. This can be a walk outside, a walk around the office building, or a walk around your home. Regardless of where, physically getting up and moving your body can help us to ground ourselves in the world around us and reduce anxiety. On your walk, consider incorporating a few stretches, twists, or shakes. Do what feels good to you. As you walk, consider practicing one of the other grounding techniques listed, or some variation of one. Take deep breaths, and pay attention to how your body feels. Do what you can to focus on your physical environment and how your body feels in the moment. There is no need to judge your mind for returning to the anxiety; that’s natural. If your mind wanders towards the source of your anxiety, acknowledge and notice what this feels like, and gently navigate it back to your body.